Our Journey Starts New

November 2011

For about a year and a half we have been praying that God would bless us with a child. We never imagined having any trouble pursuing this dream, but after a year of seemingly getting no where, we decided to start pursuing infertility treatment. Though we have not been told we cannot have children, the odds are not in our favor. This has been a very difficult journey, which has led us to start the adoption process. Adoption is something we had talked about even before we were married. Our desire is to be parents and raise children to teach them about our Savior, Jesus Christ. At times we wonder if it would have been easier to be told we are unable to have kids so that we could have started the adoption process sooner, but we know God’s timing is perfect, as is His plan for us. We are in the beginning stages of the adoption, we have finished reading the manual, and have started the Adoptive Planning Questionnaire. Once the APQ is finished we will apply for our Home Study. From there we will start working on our profile to be shown to potential birth mothers. We are very excited to have the opportunity to be blessed with a child, and know as hard or as scary and tough the process might be in the end God's will, will be done and we hope we are able to glorify him in every way.

Tuesday, July 24, 2012

God is in control

Monday night we had another meeting with our birth mother and the birth father's mother.  We and the birth mom were very nervous about this one.   As usual though there were many people praying at home including our cohorts on the Hope Christian Church navigation team who were having a monthly meeting at the same time we were having dinner during our meeting.   Our social workers once again helped guide us through this and prayers were answered.   The birth father's mom had some questions for us and got right down to the point.  Fortunately many of the questions she had were things that we've been thinking about the last 7-8 months and the adoption agency has prepared us for.   The number one priority though for her was that we were a saved couple and believed in Jesus Christ.   She wanted to know that her grand child would be raised not just in religion but in Faith and will one day know Jesus herself.   That is most important to us also so you can see how relieved we were and happy to answer that question.

As our week continues our new normal for the next few weeks is anything but normal.   :)  We are adjusting to living out of a hotel currently and it has doubled as an office during the day for us.   We are both doing our day jobs from here remotely over the computer.   We are very blessed currently to have the ability to do that.   We have a huge thanks in that a Cargill co-worker, Randy, has been able to find us a place to stay and take care of our daughter once she is placed with us.   It just so happened that he ran into some neighbors while out walking with his wife this last weekend.   They have a summer home just down the road from him and are willing to let us stay there while they are away!!  We hope to meet up with them to find out there story of adoption in their family and to thank them for this huge blessing.  Now the timing of our daughter's birth is the main factor.  We know it is not by coinscidence that any of these things have taken place, but it is by God's divine plan.

We will make sure we know where the hospital is at and depending on traffic determine the best route to get there.   We will be getting together again with our birth mother this week to hang out more and get to know each other even better.   During her last Dr. appointment the baby was very low and she has been having some mild contractions.   We are getting very close to her due date of July 30th!  Please continue praying for everyone involved here.  We are seeing many miracles happen!

1 comment:

  1. Still praying -- how exciting, nerve-wracking, and wonderful it all is, I'm sure! So glad it has been going so well so far -- we will continue to pray for you both, and everyone there!!

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